How to do Cobra Pose in Thai Yoga Massage

Here's a little video action for you today... how to do a basic Cobra Pose in Thai Yoga Massage. This is one of the poses I usually teach in my Thai Yoga Massage workshops.  One of the things I love about Thai Yoga Massage is how it teaches you to use your bodyweight instead of muscles through the massage.  This creates a more relaxing massage for the giver which, in turn, creates a more relaxing massage for the receiver and allows us to create a greater stretch for the receiver than we would otherwise be able to provide.  Awesome all 'round!

(Heads up - I will be in Bentonville, Arkansas June 13 and 14. Sign up to learn this holistic bodywork form at www.nwahotyoga.com - hope to see you there!)

 

I just don't get meditation...

One of my students said to me recently "I just don't get meditation."  I can understand why he said that - there's often no immediate gratification when we start meditating.  Rather, beginning meditators often experience frustration, great discomfort, overwhelm.  It takes alot of trust that the process will yield results. With that said, I wanted to share what meditation does for me and some of the great research that has been done into the effectiveness of meditation. Who knows maybe it will inspire trust in your own process...

For me, meditation helps release the emotional attachments to thoughts so I can think clearly. I sit and the same thoughts cycle and cycle til they are almost meaningless, then a state of bliss descends. This is really nice!  If I stop then, I am happy for the rest of the day, but left feeling like I may have cheated myself of some meaningful exploration and am living in an illusion.    

If I stay past this blissful point, things change and I feel like rather like Dorothy entering the forest in the Wizard of Oz: scary creaks, darkness, unknown shadows all seeming to follow me... Except, unlike Dorothy, I KNOW this is all in my head and I know that the only way out is though.  That's not to say that its enjoyable, but I can watch it like I watch a scary movie - I feel my breath quicken, sometimes my body tightens, sometimes I cry.  Haven't screamed yet ;-).  But I can simply watch it.  And when its over, I can walk away; altered from where/what I was before but better for the journey.

In essence, my meditation practice most days is almost like I encounter the the Emerald City before the forest.  But that further (seemingly backward) journey, should I choose to make it, is like clicking my heels together and the magic of life happens in the most wonderful way!

There are HUGE health benefits to meditating on a regular basis, including stress reduction, lowering blood pressure, easing fibromyalgia, reducing anxiety, reducing insomnia and pain management to name a few.  Here are some resources to help you learn more:

Check out what the Mayo Clinic has to say about meditation, including the benefits to physical and mental health as well as some methods of meditation.

The National Institute of Health also has some great resources on the benefits of meditation, including links to reputable studies on the use of meditation.

For inquiring minds: No, I do not meditate everyday.  Self-discipline has never been my strong point and there is little that I absolutely do every single day.  Sometimes I can pull it off for weeks at a time, sometimes its a here and there practice.  But, you know what? I surely do notice the difference when I do sit, even just for 5 minutes.  ENORMOUS difference.  In times of great stress, I do find the discipline to do it at least once a day because it means the difference between being able to deal with the stress and succumbing to it.

Yoga for Strength and Balance

Each semester in my Slow Flow Yoga class at New Mexico Tech we work for weeks learning individual poses in depth and developing the skills for a breath-supported yoga sequence that culminates our semester's experience together.  This particular flow was especially challenging, requiring new dimensions of focus and self-acceptance as each day delivered a new challenge, even though we practiced the same poses.  More than any other semester, we needed some days to just step away and regroup.

This flow is based on a sequence I found online many years ago by Mark Giubarelli.  I think he called it Pigeon Flies to Tree.  Over years of practice, it evolved into my own unique take on that flow.  I think one of the parts of it that I like the most is the interplay between movement and stillness - holding a pose for *most* of the inhales and finding transitions on the exhales: the best of both vinyasa and static yoga :-)

For those of you, like me, that like to see a sequence written out... here you go...
Start standing - use your favorite pranayam throughout.  Use one leg as your dominate leg the first run though, then use the other for the second for a complete round and balanced flow.
Inhale arms up into Mountain
Exhale Half Moon
Inhale Mountain
Exhale Half Moon other side
Inhale Mountain
Exhale Lunge
Exhale Three Legged Dog
Exhale Proud Pigeon
Exhale Resting Pigeon
Inhale Proud Pigeon
Exhale Three Legged Dog
Exhale Lunge
Exhale Warrior 3
Exhale Standing Squat var. (cross ankle over thigh)
Exhale Tree
Exhale Lunge
Exhale Three Legged Dog
Exhale Proud Pigeon
Exhale Resting Pigeon
Inhale Proud Pigeon
Exhale Three Legged Dog
Exhale Lunge
Exhale Forward Fold/Uttanasana
Inhale Mountain
Exhale Half Moon
Inhale Mountain
Exhale Half Moon
Inhale Mountain
Exhale Arms Down

Why practice mindfulness?

We will be hosting a workshop entitled Exploring Mindfulness at my yoga studio next Saturday.  I've taken this workshop with Halli Bourne in the past and found it to be very helpful, filled with practical tools to enhance my life.  I know Halli well (I should after leading 10+ retreats with her!) but I wanted to give you an introduction so I asked her if she could briefly explain what it means to be mindful (something that we will be learning in the workshop)... Here's her response...

Many of us struggle with the overwhelm of multitasking and cramming our heads with thoughts that trap us in habitual, reactive, uncreative modes of living.  Neuroscience has shown that every thought we think has a physiological response, meaning that if we are thinking negative, restrictive, stressful thoughts, our body will react in a stressed way.   Mindfulness does not mean ridding ourselves of thoughts, but rather acknowledging and recognizing thoughts and choosing to remain non-reactive in relationship to them.  The more we practice non-reactivity, the more peaceful we become.  

Hmmm....  I thought, sounds alot like where meditation and yoga take me. A true dedicated practice requires that we be mindful.  Our time on the mat is just experimentation for how to live our lives off the mat, yes? I know, the more I practice, the more I can live in the moment, without letting stories with no basis cycle through my head and the more I can see when I am on the right track instead of flailing about with the appearance of knowing where I am going :-).  

I wondered how Halli came to mindfulness and she shared her story...

As a young person, sensitive by nature, I felt buffeted by society's demands to produce and to put forth stoicism regardless of personal cost.  In my early twenties I had a near-fatal car accident that led me through an odyssey of healing and recovery.  The physical rehabilitation grounded me in my body and put me in touch with the need to change my relationship to my thoughts.  The challenges of this life---which are by no means unique to me---caused me to initiate a daily meditation practice and have fueled a passion for the tools of introspection and their power to revolutionize personal experience. 

Wow - to hold up under such intensity, mindfulness is a powerful practice that seems to create a quiet power within the practitioner.  If mindfulness can help in such adversity, just think how it could enhance your life in times of joy... definitely food for thought and exploration.

If you are in the Lemitar area, please join us Saturday 5/16 3-5pm for this provocative and deep workshop.  You can pre-register and find more information on our website - www.yogadelsolstudio.com.  To learn more about Halli, visit www.true-self-coaching.com.

Wild Kingdom Yoga!

Saw a HUGE coyote on my walk this morning and I thought of the Howling Wolf Bastrika and said to myself, "I haven't done that one in a while!"  So, I tried it out again and, wow, what a great way to warm up the body and let out all the stress. 

How to do this pranayama?

1. Come into Child's Pose with your palms flat on the floor under your shoulders.

2.  As you inhale, use your breathe to push your belly away from your thighs as you press your arms to straight.

3.  As you exhale, bend your elbows, draw your belly in and use the pressure of your thighs against your belly to move all your breath out.

4.  Repeat steps 2 and 3 at least 10 times.

Cautions: If this practice makes you feel dizzy, I advise against this practice.

What in the natural world has inspired your practice lately?

Check out this lovely interview I got to do about our retreats...

Playing around at our first Belize retreat

I had a great time answering Bridget Hales questions the other day about Santosha Yoga & Meditation Retreats.  We talked about the origin and philosophy of Santosha Retreats, our upcoming retreat in Maui, why I love leading retreats and more.  Bridget is a beautiful writer and dedicated yogini and maintains the blog Hot Tea, Travel, and Thyme where you can read our interview, find fitness motivation and follow her extensive world travels (baby in tow!).

What is Thai Yoga Massage?

This post is about one of my favorite things to give, receive and share - Thai Yoga Massage - I get alot of questions as to exactly what it is, so I thought I better give you an idea...

Thai Yoga Massage is the most delicious combination of yoga and massage!  Its often called "the lazy man's yoga" because the receiver is guided into a variety of yoga positions while remaining completely passive.  Once in position, the practitioner works to release muscles and open joints while the muscles and connective tissues are in gentle traction.  Great for increasing range of motion, general relaxation and helping with aches and pains, its also a really amazing way to gain insight into your yoga practice.


As your therapist moves your passive body, you begin to gain a greater understanding of new ways to position your body for more ease in your poses, how to use your breath more effectively, and especially, how much you tend to get in your own way by working too hard and over-engaging your muscles and your mind.

Want to experience Thai Yoga Massage for yourself?  Locally, we have 2 therapists that are taking "practice" clients at Yoga del Sol Studio.  They are developing their skills and work on a donation basis.  Note that you will need a referral from a current client to book with them.  If you are not local, just google Thai Massage practitioners in your local area, no doubt there is someone great just around the corner!

If you are in Arkansas, I will be teaching a Thai Yoga Massage workshop for the general public on both Saturday, June 13 2-5pm and Sunday, June 14 1-4pm at NWA Hot Yoga in Bentonville.  No experience required.  Free and open to the public.  Learn to both give and receive this delightful form!

May you be well.
May you be happy.
May you be free from suffering.
Metta.